I took Ava to our libraries Babies and Books storytime today. We haven't been in a while and I noticed something. As I was looking around and watching the other babies (8-23 mos) and their parents, I saw that most of the kids were sitting with their parents listening and participating or at least just sitting there or standing beside their parent.
Then, I looked and saw my child standing in the middle of the circle, walking and running around the room a little, climbing up on chairs, playing with the other children's strollers, etc.
What's wrong with this picture?
A few of my thoughts/rationalizations:
1. my daughter is probably one of the only 14 month olds that can run and climb and others would be doing it too
2. I shouldn't feel so bad because they say it is okay for the kids to wander around and there were a few wandering around and she really wasn't being noisy
3. my child disregards my "no's" or my "come here's"
4. I'm worrying too much
5. my child has a short attention span (ADD! Oh, no! ;)
6. my child is just really outgoing
7. my child is just smart and knows what she wants
8. this is my way to learn that I don't have 100% control - not even close
Okay, I've gone on way too long about this. I'm not taking it as hard as it sounds - but I sure did notice this and it did get me thinking about my parenting skills and tactics. Something tells me this is just the beginning of these kinds of feelings!